You’ve been told for a long time that being yourself and following Christ lie in two different directions.
After all,taking up your cross and “denying yourself” is a part of the job. You have stuffed down who you are, on a fundamental level, not because you are trying to follow Christ, but because you have been trying to follow what everyone else thinks of Christ.
Without knowing it, you are following the world’s ways instead of the father’s ways.
This is an invitation to cast off the weight of the world and take on the light-minded mentality of the father. His love will carry you through any and every transformation and consecration that you have been afraid of.
Those things about yourself that you have struggled with and dreaded and hated for years are going to become the things he uses to best show his love to you.
He is re-stating his open invitation to have you get to know him on a deep, scary-intimate level through his Word, his voice, and his heart. You cannot remain unchanged through the process, but instead of turning from apples to oranges you will be refined like gold heated and heated again.
You remember all those books that talked about people who gave up so much for the sake of the cause: their families, their loves, their homes, their lives. You have been afraid that becoming one with Christ somehow means losing yourself. And it does.
It means losing the worst parts of you, your creature comforts, the things that keep you mired in a single point of time. You remember all the things these people lost for God; but let me tell you what they gained.
They gained back their purest selves, the parts of them purified through hardship and healing and redrawing of where they thought their boundaries were, and what they thought they were capable of.
When God gave them back the paper on which they had defined themselves they found that the lines had been erased and instead there was a picture of a cross and the knowledge that they couldn’t be defined outside of Christ anymore.
With God, all things- radical healing and restructuring, releasing of all insecurities and anxieties, are all possible, through Christ who laid down his soul, life, and everything he was to be made into the truest form of himself (love) on the Cross.
You’re afraid of losing yourself in this process, in this journey, of releasing your identity to Christ. But let me ask you- do you know who you really are? Do you know how he truly sees you?
Trading a few trinkets and cheap jewelry of your current identity for the crown and cross of who you are established in Christ may seem difficult right now, even excruciating- but it is no sacrifice.
There is nothing taken or lost that compares with what you will gain and find in Christ when you choose to release what you know and trust in his knowledge of you.
Romans 12, John 21:33, Matthew 11:29 Malachi 3:3, 1 Corinthians 2:16, Phillippians 3:8, Hebrews 12: 1-2, 22-24, Revelation 2:10.